Step Work

leigh · leigh

ok. I am afraid to start the step work. What if it doesn't work? What if I don't work it? What if I don't do it right? I don't have a sponsor. Do I need one? I know I need to realize down into my cells that I am powerless over other people's habits, other people's lives.&nb...

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Step Three - Made a decision to turn our will and our lives over to the care of God as we understood him. 1. Am I willing to try to tun my problems over? What could help me be willing? 2. Have I had a problem making decisions in my life? Give an example. 3. If I am unable to make this decsion, what ho...

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Step Four - Made a searching and fearless moral inventory of ourselves. 1. What does searching and fearless mean to me? 2. In what ways do I look for the good in others? 3. Whom do I resent from my past? Why? What was my part in it? 4. Do I do for others what they can do for themselves? Why? ...

Kathy570 · Kathy570

I am so frigin confused !!!! I am a recovering Alcoholic since Oct 15, 2001. I am also married to an active A. I grew up in Alcoholic home where both parents drank. I was sexually abuse since 5 years old. I am very co-dependent. I suffer from PTSD, Major Depress...

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Step Four - Made a searching and fearless moral inventory of ourselves. From: Paths to Recovery pg. 38 (copyright 1997, by Al Anon Family Group Headquarters, Inc. Limited use bu express written permission of Al-Anon Family Group Headquarters, Inc.) The decision to turn our life and will o...

christina · christina

Hi, I am new to Alanon and am feeling very alone. I do not have a sponsor yet so I was wondering if I should attempt Step 1 by myself? I have no idea what that even entails? If anyone would like to e-mail me personally or just answer through the site here I would grately appreciate it. I am feeling very a...

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Step Three - Made a decision to turn our will and our lives over to the care of God as we understood Him. From: Paths to Recovery pg. 28 (Copyright 1997, by Al-Anon Family Group Headquarters, Inc. Limited use by express written permission of Al-Anon Family Group Headquarters, Inc.) The first...

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Step Two - Came to believe that a Power greater than ourselves could restore us to sanity. 1. What is my concept of a Higher Power at this time? 2. What might I gain from believing I could be supported and loved by a Power greater than myself? 3. Have I allowed the alcoholic situation to becom...

liza · liza

Came to believe that a power greater that ourselves could restore uo to sanity. Unfortunately, I have been stuck on this step, and couldn't wait til the board caught up with me. I was raised in a stauch, religious, dogamatic, and god fearing family. In which guilt was the instructor.&...

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Step Two - Came yo believe that a Power greater than ourselves could restore us to sanity. From - Paths To Recovery - pg. 18-19 (copyright 1997, by Al-Anon Family Group Headquarters, Inc. Limited use by express written permission of Al-Anon Family Group Headquarters, Inc. Acceptance of St...

ollie · ollie

Hi everone, this is my first letter,can anyone help me where im to begin,i have just separated with my a/h after 33yrs of what i consider a good marriage,i have been trying to fix this mess for 3yrs going down every possible road,In the end it has just destroyed me as a person,i know t...

Pedro · Pedro

Hi, My name is Pedro. I've been clean for 10 years and am currently on my Eleventh Step. My prayers have improved over the years, but I still struggle with silencing the mind. Meditation is am area that I need help with in order to improve with my relationship with God and others. Any suggestions? I cou...

DanaBanana · DanaBanana

I'm thrilled I logged in here today....I've been waiting for the Steps to restart. Now a quick question....in the Step One Al-anon post, the "3 C's" were mentioned a few times....I feel like a dork but have to ask, what are these? Thanks, Dana xo

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Step One - We admitted we were powerless over alcoholo - that our lives had become unmanageable. From: How Al-Anon Works - pg. 46 (copyright 1995, by Al-Anon Family Group Headquarters, Inc. Limited use by express written permission of Al-Anon Family Group Headquartrs, Inc.) With this Fir...

mike d · mike d

I don't know where you post anything or have 12 step meetings. If someone could help me out I would appreciate it. Mike

Noni · Noni

What do you believe are your major strengths? Patience; able to help others who are truly in need; able to help others to are sick/dying with love, empathy and compassion; able to know when young children are lying; able to complete projects that I start; able to b...

liza · liza

I am anxiously waiting to start the steps, have been waiting patiently for it to start over, from step one. I will check back periodically in the next seven days, I am soooooo looking forward to beginning. LizaLou

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Step Twelve - Having had a spiritual awakening as the result of these Steps, we tried to carry this message to others, and to practice these principals in all our affairs. 1. Have I experienced a spiritual awakening? Describe. 2. What is the difference between carrying the message and givin...

Vicky R · Vicky R

From: Just For Today Card (copyright 1972 , by Al-Anon Family Group Headquarters, Inc. Limited use by express written permission of Al-Anon Family Group Headquarters, Inc.) “ Just for today I will have a quiet half hour all by myself , and relax. During this half hour , sometime ,...

amanda2u2 · amanda2u2

Happy Mother's Day to all! and a happy day to all those that make us to be mothers! kids and fathers. I had an amazing spiritual awakening last yesterday at a special charismatic retreat. I went into it feeling down and in need, and came out feeling totally amazed at how God 'ent...

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	It's time (Preview) ok. I am afraid to start the step work. What if it doesn't work? What if I don't work it? What if I don't do it right? I don't have a sponsor. Do I need one? I know I need to realize down into my cells that I am powerless over other people's habits, other people's lives.&nb...	leigh	9	1334	Jul 21, 2006 by Vicky R
	Step Three Questions (Preview) Step Three - Made a decision to turn our will and our lives over to the care of God as we understood him. 1. Am I willing to try to tun my problems over? What could help me be willing? 2. Have I had a problem making decisions in my life? Give an example. 3. If I am unable to make this decsion, what ho...	dot	2	924	Jul 17, 2006 by Vicky R
	Step Four Questions (Preview) Step Four - Made a searching and fearless moral inventory of ourselves. 1. What does searching and fearless mean to me? 2. In what ways do I look for the good in others? 3. Whom do I resent from my past? Why? What was my part in it? 4. Do I do for others what they can do for themselves? Why? ...	dot	2	1166	Jul 12, 2006 by Vicky R
	Where do I START ??????? (Preview) I am so frigin confused !!!! I am a recovering Alcoholic since Oct 15, 2001. I am also married to an active A. I grew up in Alcoholic home where both parents drank. I was sexually abuse since 5 years old. I am very co-dependent. I suffer from PTSD, Major Depress...	Kathy570	2	1286	Jul 5, 2006 by amanda2u2
	Step Four Al-Anon (Preview) Step Four - Made a searching and fearless moral inventory of ourselves. From: Paths to Recovery pg. 38 (copyright 1997, by Al Anon Family Group Headquarters, Inc. Limited use bu express written permission of Al-Anon Family Group Headquarters, Inc.) The decision to turn our life and will o...	dot	2	2935	Jul 5, 2006 by Vicky R
	I am new to the alanon program (Preview) Hi, I am new to Alanon and am feeling very alone. I do not have a sponsor yet so I was wondering if I should attempt Step 1 by myself? I have no idea what that even entails? If anyone would like to e-mail me personally or just answer through the site here I would grately appreciate it. I am feeling very a...	christina	6	2601	Jul 5, 2006 by Vicky R
	Step Three Al-Anon (Preview) Step Three - Made a decision to turn our will and our lives over to the care of God as we understood Him. From: Paths to Recovery pg. 28 (Copyright 1997, by Al-Anon Family Group Headquarters, Inc. Limited use by express written permission of Al-Anon Family Group Headquarters, Inc.) The first...	dot	7	1363	Jul 2, 2006 by annah
	Step Two Questions (Preview) Step Two - Came to believe that a Power greater than ourselves could restore us to sanity. 1. What is my concept of a Higher Power at this time? 2. What might I gain from believing I could be supported and loved by a Power greater than myself? 3. Have I allowed the alcoholic situation to becom...	dot	5	1523	Jun 18, 2006 by notcrazy62
	Step 2 (Preview) Came to believe that a power greater that ourselves could restore uo to sanity. Unfortunately, I have been stuck on this step, and couldn't wait til the board caught up with me. I was raised in a stauch, religious, dogamatic, and god fearing family. In which guilt was the instructor.&...	liza	5	1230	Jun 18, 2006 by notcrazy62
	Stwp Two Al-Anon (Preview) Step Two - Came yo believe that a Power greater than ourselves could restore us to sanity. From - Paths To Recovery - pg. 18-19 (copyright 1997, by Al-Anon Family Group Headquarters, Inc. Limited use by express written permission of Al-Anon Family Group Headquarters, Inc. Acceptance of St...	dot	3	1224	Jun 18, 2006 by karilynn
	newcomer (Preview) Hi everone, this is my first letter,can anyone help me where im to begin,i have just separated with my a/h after 33yrs of what i consider a good marriage,i have been trying to fix this mess for 3yrs going down every possible road,In the end it has just destroyed me as a person,i know t...	ollie	4	1072	Jun 13, 2006 by Vicky R
	Experiences on Meditation (Preview) Hi, My name is Pedro. I've been clean for 10 years and am currently on my Eleventh Step. My prayers have improved over the years, but I still struggle with silencing the mind. Meditation is am area that I need help with in order to improve with my relationship with God and others. Any suggestions? I cou...	Pedro	1	950	Jun 13, 2006 by amanda2u2
	Happy to start with ya all-question tho... (Preview) I'm thrilled I logged in here today....I've been waiting for the Steps to restart. Now a quick question....in the Step One Al-anon post, the "3 C's" were mentioned a few times....I feel like a dork but have to ask, what are these? Thanks, Dana xo	DanaBanana	2	1001	May 30, 2006 by DanaBanana
	Step One Al-Anon (Preview) Step One - We admitted we were powerless over alcoholo - that our lives had become unmanageable. From: How Al-Anon Works - pg. 46 (copyright 1995, by Al-Anon Family Group Headquarters, Inc. Limited use by express written permission of Al-Anon Family Group Headquartrs, Inc.) With this Fir...	dot	5	6070	May 28, 2006 by dot
	I don't understand (Preview) I don't know where you post anything or have 12 step meetings. If someone could help me out I would appreciate it. Mike	mike d	2	890	May 26, 2006 by Vicky R
	Step four share (Preview) What do you believe are your major strengths? Patience; able to help others who are truly in need; able to help others to are sick/dying with love, empathy and compassion; able to know when young children are lying; able to complete projects that I start; able to b...	Noni	1	1306	May 24, 2006 by DanaBanana
	Almost there, (Preview) I am anxiously waiting to start the steps, have been waiting patiently for it to start over, from step one. I will check back periodically in the next seven days, I am soooooo looking forward to beginning. LizaLou	liza	2	844	May 20, 2006 by lkthwnd
	Step Twelve Questionns (Preview) Step Twelve - Having had a spiritual awakening as the result of these Steps, we tried to carry this message to others, and to practice these principals in all our affairs. 1. Have I experienced a spiritual awakening? Describe. 2. What is the difference between carrying the message and givin...	dot	1	843	May 18, 2006 by Vicky R
	step 12 Alanon (Preview) From: Just For Today Card (copyright 1972 , by Al-Anon Family Group Headquarters, Inc. Limited use by express written permission of Al-Anon Family Group Headquarters, Inc.) “ Just for today I will have a quiet half hour all by myself , and relax. During this half hour , sometime ,...	Vicky R	1	728	May 16, 2006 by kent_s
	Happy Mother's Day! (Preview) *Happy Mother's Day to all! and a happy day to all those that make us to be mothers! kids and fathers.* *I had an amazing spiritual awakening last yesterday at a special charismatic retreat. I went into it feeling down and in need, and came out feeling totally amazed at how God 'ent...*	amanda2u2	0	777	May 14, 2006 by amanda2u2
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