Step Work

Sobrietyspell · Sobrietyspell

The 5 As of Adjustment ~ Awareness ~ Until we admit awareness of a problem or a character defect, we cannot possibly let it go. Steps 4 & 5 apply here. Attitude ~ This is the Willingness A. Do we justify our thoughts or actions? Do we want to keep doing what we are doing & get different results? We mu...

lacewing · lacewing

Hello! I am new to your boards, but not new to Al-Anon. I have come here to review step work but do not seem to see activity here, on this board. The description states there is a step worked on every two weeks and they go in order - all 12 steps. But, I am not seeing where you are - what step your on, or much ac...

Huscroft6 · Huscroft6

Hey all, newbie recovering Alcoholic here, going on 15 days :) Longest in 6 years. Anyhow I have a few question, basically regarding AA meetings since Ive only been to 1 (along with my outpatient classes) and am a bit uncomfortable being very new to the meetings as far as what to do/be prepared for....

cath · cath

I'm currently working the steps with my sponsor, but need more.

sabby12 · sabby12

Hi there, I wonder if anybody could please help by sharing their thoughts on this... Basically, I came into the fellowship about 9 months ago and felt that after some initial reluctance I 'admitted I was powerless and that my life had become unmanageable.' I picked up again a few weeks ago and have bee...

vampedvixen · vampedvixen

Some people say that the steps and the traditions go together by number. Like step 1 is connected with tradition 1, step 2 with traditions 2 and so on. I'm trying to figure out how each is connected, and I was wondering who shared this view? They're obviously very important to the program, each in their...

PaGenie · PaGenie

My husband and I have attended two meetings. Nothing has been said about sponsors. Are they just for AA? Life is so chaotic that I have difficulty being consistent with anything. I think a sponsor could keep me on track to work the steps. Do you have to ask for a sponsor or is this help offered after a...

geminijodi · geminijodi

Hi, I was wondering where I can go for a meeting? It is Tuesday nite, I live on the West Coast and in the Pacific standard time zone.

Vicky R · Vicky R

Quote: From: Courage to Change - p 221 (copyright 1992, by Al-Anon Group Headquarters, Inc. Limited use by express written permission of Al-Anon Family Group Headquarters, Inc.) "I need not judge the rate at which I change old habits of wayr of thinking. If i am uncomfortable with old behavior...

tlcate · tlcate

I have looked through several pages of posts and do not see where this is being carried forward so I will start. Hope that is OK. I am 8 days sober and starting to work my steps - so I imagine, tho I am starting this post and will continue to post additional steps every two weeks, I will have more questions t...

lilbiT · lilbiT

Life is not about waiting 4 the storm 2 pass, its all about learning to dance in the rain. This cool poem is what I turn to when I am in a storm There are days when I wallow in the self pity of the life I have created by old thinking. I can "Never" change these choices but when I decide to stop the "...

fezworth5 · fezworth5

Can we talk about addictions, and recovery on here or only 12-step?

Sincerely · Sincerely

Does anyone know what is wrong with the MIP Chat Room Server? For the last 2 days its has given me a server unavailable message.

Sobrietyspell · Sobrietyspell

Thanks everyone for being here & your patience if you stick this out! I'd like to share my ESH re Step 12 :) It took me a while to move from Step 11 as I was frightened & feeling overwhelmed that I wouldn't have anything to give to anyone else as I could still be confused in my own program. (Obvio...

kimphillips · kimphillips

I need some help from those that are married. how do you work toward bettering your relationship with a new spouse and just now learning that your emotions are the problem?

Vicky R · Vicky R

From: Courage to Change - p 311 (copyright 1992, by Al-Anon Group Headquarters, Inc. Limited use by express written permission of Al-Anon Family Group Headquarters, Inc.) " For me the exact nature of our wrongs is the unspoken, self-defeating assumptions that give rise to my thoughts and act...

Dave Harm · Dave Harm

Looking Within it was strange... to look within to leave behind a world where approval... was a drug needed to survive this path... this journey made some believe they were abandoned yet... it was the greatest act of love ever given for the first time I accepted that your actions were not my responsib...

berniek · berniek

Hi, How do you know if the inventory you have taken is too long? I have almost completed the list of resentments and I have over 70 names! Bernie

Tahir · Tahir

"We admitted to God, to ourselves, and to another human being the exact nature of our wrongs." Our Basic Text tells us that "Step Five is not simply a reading of Step Four." Yet we know that reading our Fourth Step to another human being is certainly part of Step Five. So what's the...

Dave Harm · Dave Harm

Hello, Where to start? Well, I'm a recovering alcoholic and this September, God Willing, I will celebrate my 15th year of sobriety. The only reason I believe that I have "survived" in recovery is because of the 12 Steps. But my life has had more addictions then alcoholism. I am a co-depen...

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	AA ~ Altered Attitudes (Preview) The 5 As of Adjustment ~ Awareness ~ Until we admit awareness of a problem or a character defect, we cannot possibly let it go. Steps 4 & 5 apply here. Attitude ~ This is the Willingness A. Do we justify our thoughts or actions? Do we want to keep doing what we are doing & get different results? We mu...	Sobrietyspell	1	1398	Aug 24, 2009 by browniescout
	Where is everyone and are the steps being discussed? (Preview) Hello! I am new to your boards, but not new to Al-Anon. I have come here to review step work but do not seem to see activity here, on this board. The description states there is a step worked on every two weeks and they go in order - all 12 steps. But, I am not seeing where you are - what step your on, or much ac...	lacewing	0	1193	Aug 8, 2009 by lacewing
	Question(s) (Preview) Hey all, newbie recovering Alcoholic here, going on 15 days :) Longest in 6 years. Anyhow I have a few question, basically regarding AA meetings since Ive only been to 1 (along with my outpatient classes) and am a bit uncomfortable being very new to the meetings as far as what to do/be prepared for....	Huscroft6	3	1454	Aug 3, 2009 by QuietMorning
	is any one there? (Preview) I'm currently working the steps with my sponsor, but need more.	cath	1	1221	Jul 31, 2009 by madmaven
	Step 1: Powerlessness (Preview) Hi there, I wonder if anybody could please help by sharing their thoughts on this... Basically, I came into the fellowship about 9 months ago and felt that after some initial reluctance I 'admitted I was powerless and that my life had become unmanageable.' I picked up again a few weeks ago and have bee...	sabby12	8	5365	Jul 13, 2009 by DJM2
	Traditions & Steps? (Preview) Some people say that the steps and the traditions go together by number. Like step 1 is connected with tradition 1, step 2 with traditions 2 and so on. I'm trying to figure out how each is connected, and I was wondering who shared this view? They're obviously very important to the program, each in their...	vampedvixen	1	1753	Jul 10, 2009 by Vicky R
	Hi - I'm new to Alanon - Sponsor Question (Preview) My husband and I have attended two meetings. Nothing has been said about sponsors. Are they just for AA? Life is so chaotic that I have difficulty being consistent with anything. I think a sponsor could keep me on track to work the steps. Do you have to ask for a sponsor or is this help offered after a...	PaGenie	2	1181	Jul 10, 2009 by Vicky R
	Online Meetings (Preview) Hi, I was wondering where I can go for a meeting? It is Tuesday nite, I live on the West Coast and in the Pacific standard time zone.	geminijodi	0	1240	Jun 17, 2009 by geminijodi
	Al-Anon Step 6 (Preview) Quote: From: Courage to Change - p 221 (copyright 1992, by Al-Anon Group Headquarters, Inc. Limited use by express written permission of Al-Anon Family Group Headquarters, Inc.) "I need not judge the rate at which I change old habits of wayr of thinking. If i am uncomfortable with old behavior...	Vicky R	3	2872	May 23, 2009 by Vicky R
	AA - Step 1 (Preview) I have looked through several pages of posts and do not see where this is being carried forward so I will start. Hope that is OK. I am 8 days sober and starting to work my steps - so I imagine, tho I am starting this post and will continue to post additional steps every two weeks, I will have more questions t...	tlcate	11	11915	May 9, 2009 by eileend
	Nice start (Preview) Life is not about waiting 4 the storm 2 pass, its all about learning to dance in the rain. This cool poem is what I turn to when I am in a storm There are days when I wallow in the self pity of the life I have created by old thinking. I can "Never" change these choices but when I decide to stop the "...	lilbiT	1	1092	May 5, 2009 by aunitedway
	Soooo (Preview) Can we talk about addictions, and recovery on here or only 12-step?	fezworth5	3	1326	May 5, 2009 by aunitedway
	Server Unavailable (Preview) Does anyone know what is wrong with the MIP Chat Room Server? For the last 2 days its has given me a server unavailable message.	Sincerely	2	972	May 2, 2009 by belle1
	My Step 12 Awakening (Preview) Thanks everyone for being here & your patience if you stick this out! I'd like to share my ESH re Step 12 :) It took me a while to move from Step 11 as I was frightened & feeling overwhelmed that I wouldn't have anything to give to anyone else as I could still be confused in my own program. (Obvio...	Sobrietyspell	0	1406	Apr 22, 2009 by Sobrietyspell
	relationships (Preview) I need some help from those that are married. how do you work toward bettering your relationship with a new spouse and just now learning that your emotions are the problem?	kimphillips	4	1312	Apr 13, 2009 by Vicky R
	Al-Anon Step 5 (Preview) From: Courage to Change - p 311 (copyright 1992, by Al-Anon Group Headquarters, Inc. Limited use by express written permission of Al-Anon Family Group Headquarters, Inc.) " For me the exact nature of our wrongs is the unspoken, self-defeating assumptions that give rise to my thoughts and act...	Vicky R	5	5171	Apr 13, 2009 by Vicky R
	Alanon Step Four Poem (Preview) Looking Within it was strange... to look within to leave behind a world where approval... was a drug needed to survive this path... this journey made some believe they were abandoned yet... it was the greatest act of love ever given for the first time I accepted that your actions were not my responsib...	Dave Harm	1	2308	Apr 13, 2009 by Vicky R
	length of step 4 inventory (Preview) Hi, How do you know if the inventory you have taken is too long? I have almost completed the list of resentments and I have over 70 names! Bernie	berniek	3	1589	Apr 9, 2009 by Dave Harm
	NA Step 5 (Preview) "We admitted to God, to ourselves, and to another human being the exact nature of our wrongs." Our Basic Text tells us that "Step Five is not simply a reading of Step Four." Yet we know that reading our Fourth Step to another human being is certainly part of Step Five. So what's the...	Tahir	3	14488	Apr 9, 2009 by Dave Harm
	My life with the 12 Steps (Preview) Hello, Where to start? Well, I'm a recovering alcoholic and this September, God Willing, I will celebrate my 15th year of sobriety. The only reason I believe that I have "survived" in recovery is because of the 12 Steps. But my life has had more addictions then alcoholism. I am a co-depen...	Dave Harm	1	1206	Apr 8, 2009 by Theresa
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