this is a step that gave me GREAT diffuculity..i just couldn't GET IT.,and there are sitll times that i don't GET IT.God gave us all free will..and i know that i misused that free will.Makeing the decision to work the rest of the steps i thing opened my eyes to what was the proper use of my will and what was God's will.I came to learn that i always wanted to be in control of people places and things..and i used to think that if other people would turn THEIR will over to me and do things the way i wanted them to , then what a wonderful world it would be.My greatest problems and conflicts today stem from relationships..let go and let God always seems to work for me..and acceptance of who people are and not what i want them to be works so much better........Hildy