As I can see you are on Step 9 and I am only starting step one - I will go back and start working on my own from your earlier posts and eagerly join you again when you start the step one again.

So relieved to find you here.  My son is 31 years old and I have been enabeling him since he was in his teens.  Time to stop the insanity and get help (for me).  I'm just starting so still unable to cope with the worry and pain over him out there (don't know where).

I'll be back.   

Hi, April,,, welcome...  meanwhile,,,   I hope you check out our alanon message board and meeting room too.

amanda

Hi April and Welcome to the board. I don't have children but it seems like it would be much harder to accept powerlessness over a child than a spouse. Glad you are here - you are no longer alone. Love and hugs - Dot ((((((April))))))

hi April , welcome , I can relate to the enabling thing , I've had to do alot of work on that and am still working on it so look forward to sharing with you lol Vickyr x