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I have made the decision to turn my will and my life over to HP because I can't handle everything on my own and there are many things in life I'm not meant to handle.

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I'm know I'm worth more than this - but I can't help holding on to the hope that he'll get better.
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1. How do I know who or what my Higher Power is? I can see two HP's in my life, Alanon and God. I know because I can feel them there. I know because I can see how much peace they've brought to my life in such a short time.

2. How can I stop thinking, trying and condidering and actually make a decision? By setting boundaries that I can actually enforce and having a back-up plan to help me if I can't actually enforce it on my own - and I'm actually doing that!

3. How can I stop myself from taking my will back? By continuing to work my steps, staying involved in Alanon and surrounding myself with a support system and ppl and who believe in a HP. That is not to say that everyone in my life is like that, but the closest friends & family, they are.

4. How can I turn a situation over and let go of the results? Basically the same as number 3. If I have a system in place, then I have a guide to go by and ppl to support me in that.

-- Edited by Gurl25 at 20:05, 2007-06-26

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