Step Work

Zimmy · Zimmy

I thank you all who read this and those who reply too. I am a new grateful member of al-anon and i have been to two f2f meetings. I am loving the 12 step programme and feel it is the right programme for me. The thing is I'm not sure how I am supposed to work it. I totally get that the first 3 steps are where i n...

JamesCT · JamesCT

11. Our public relations policy is based on attraction rather than promotion; we maintain personal anonymity at the level of press, radio, T.V. and films. This seems pretty straightforward and without need of interpretation.

JamesCT · JamesCT

10. Adult Children of Alcoholics has no opinion on outside issues; hence the ACA name ought never be drawn into public controversy. We cannot afford the distraction of being about anything other than the recovery of Adult Children of Alcoholics and this tradition supports that.

hotrod · hotrod

TRADITON TEN ( 10)The Alanon family Groups Have No Opinion on Outside Issues Hence our Name Ought Never Be Drawn into Public Controversy Courage to Change Page 52 At the Groups level this tradition states I can go to any meeting and know I will not be recruited for any particular cause and on a individ...

tlcate · tlcate

Step One We admitted we were powerless over alcohol, that our lives had become unmanageable. For me I half-heartedly understood this when first entering recovery. I understood it at a textbook level. Not until I had hit my bottom did I grasp onto this step with all my heart, body, and soul. I had just...

MimiW · MimiW

Wondering if anyone has a few questions (or a worksheet of some kind) they used to work Step 3 when they were there. I know what to DO in a theoretical sense, but...how do I get there emotionally? Any advice? Thanks!

Step 4 and guidance new member · Leslie

I have difficulty getting to my meeting, but know I need to get started on step 4 ....i have put it aside for too long and it keeps popping up...hmmmmm..... anyone out there that has guidance, input sharing of there own, would be greatly appreciated....

carollinda · carollinda

i hppe to come to belive that i have no contol over others and the outcome of there life not my fault i have been thinking all thease years that all the bad stuff that happend in my own home growing up was my fault as my Father phyiscaly or verbaly attacked my 5 older brothers also my mother i felt wasnt there...

JamesCT · JamesCT

9. ACA, as such, ought never be organized, but we may create service boards or committees directly responsible to those they serve. Organizations often get lost in the preservation of the organization to the detriment of the mission of the organization.

hotrod · hotrod

TRADITION NINE (9)Our Groups as such Ought Never be Organized but They May Create Service Boards or Committees Directly Responsible to Those they ServeCourage to Change (291)As newcomers we were surprised to find the absence of rules in alanon . Before we found recovery from the effects of alcoh...

JamesCT · JamesCT

8. Adult Children of Alcoholics should remain forever non-professional, but our service centers may employ special workers. A concession that people for specific functions may be needed.

hotrod · hotrod

TRADITION EIGHT 8 TRADITION EIGHT 8 Alanon Twelve Step Work Should remain forever Non-Professional but Our Service Centers May Employ Service Workers. Courage to Change (Page 137) We come together as a fellow ship of equals. Where no one is in charge and no one is an expert. Every memb...

JamesCT · JamesCT

7. Every ACA group ought to be fully self-supporting, declining outside contributions. If a group is beholding to an outside means of support, then there is pressure to change the group's message to suit its benefactor. This is to protect ACA from that.

hotrod · hotrod

4 th Step: Made a Searching and Fearless Moral Inventory of Ourselves Courage to Change Page 158 How easy it can be to justify our own unacceptable behavior!! Perhaps we excuse ourselves, claiming that we were provoked or had no choice. Or we dismiss our actions by telling ourselves that Everyone...

hotrod · hotrod

Seventh Step (7)Every Groups Ought to be Fully Self Supporting Declining outside Contributions COURAGE TO CHANGE PAGE (251)There is more to maintaining a fully self-supporting Al Anon group than just paying the rent. Continuity of service is important to our common welfare. I will think abo...

JamesCT · JamesCT

6. An ACA group ought never endorse, finance or lend the ACA name to any related facility or outside enterprise, lest problems of money, property and prestige divert us from our primary purpose. Money can lure people's eyes off the true mission of a cause, substituting itself for the actual point. Th...

yolerbob · yolerbob

Good evening, I am new to this and not really sure how it works. I just know that I need to talk to someone that is going through what I am. I have a sister who is an alcoholic and her drinking is affecting me and my family. I don't want her to feel as if I'm judging her and I don't want to isolate her but I don't...

mariposalily · mariposalily

I cannot get into the online AA meetings--does anyone have a phone number I could call or any information on how to participate in the meetings? I have tried to get on multiple times during the Month of May, 2012. This would help very much as I have limited transportation to meetings from my rural hom...

JamesCT · JamesCT

1. Our common welfare should come first, personal recovery depends on ACA unity. I have been asked to post the twelve traditions of ACA, but I am not versed on them or what they mean, to be perfectly honest. So I welcome your opinions and discussions. This first tradition definitely could use some ex...

JamesCT · JamesCT

5. Each group has but one primary purpose - to carry its message to the adult child who still suffers. As is the case with any organized human endeavor, sometimes the purpose of the gathering can get lost in the people, their personalities, and their agendas. We need to be mindful that this is the purpos...

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	Don't know where to start (kind of) :) (Preview) I thank you all who read this and those who reply too. I am a new grateful member of al-anon and i have been to two f2f meetings. I am loving the 12 step programme and feel it is the right programme for me. The thing is I'm not sure how I am supposed to work it. I totally get that the first 3 steps are where i n...	Zimmy	1	992	Sep 26, 2012 by hotrod
	Tradition 11 - Adult Children of Alcoholics (Preview) 11. Our public relations policy is based on attraction rather than promotion; we maintain personal anonymity at the level of press, radio, T.V. and films. This seems pretty straightforward and without need of interpretation.	JamesCT	1	823	Sep 25, 2012 by DavidG
	Tradition 10 - Adult Children of Alcoholics (Preview) 10. Adult Children of Alcoholics has no opinion on outside issues; hence the ACA name ought never be drawn into public controversy. We cannot afford the distraction of being about anything other than the recovery of Adult Children of Alcoholics and this tradition supports that.	JamesCT	1	1134	Sep 11, 2012 by DavidG
	TRADITION 10 ALANON (Preview) TRADITON TEN ( 10)The Alanon family Groups Have No Opinion on Outside Issues Hence our Name Ought Never Be Drawn into Public Controversy Courage to Change Page 52 At the Groups level this tradition states I can go to any meeting and know I will not be recruited for any particular cause and on a individ...	hotrod	2	7531	Sep 10, 2012 by hotrod
	Step One (Preview) Step One We admitted we were powerless over alcohol, that our lives had become unmanageable. For me I half-heartedly understood this when first entering recovery. I understood it at a textbook level. Not until I had hit my bottom did I grasp onto this step with all my heart, body, and soul. I had just...	tlcate	16	3257	Sep 10, 2012 by Phaidros
	Step 3 (Preview) Wondering if anyone has a few questions (or a worksheet of some kind) they used to work Step 3 when they were there. I know what to DO in a theoretical sense, but...how do I get there emotionally? Any advice? Thanks!	MimiW	5	1677	Sep 5, 2012 by hotrod
	Step 4 and guidance new member (Preview) I have difficulty getting to my meeting, but know I need to get started on step 4 ....i have put it aside for too long and it keeps popping up...hmmmmm..... anyone out there that has guidance, input sharing of there own, would be greatly appreciated....	Leslie	3	1290	Sep 3, 2012 by hotrod
	step one (Preview) i hppe to come to belive that i have no contol over others and the outcome of there life not my fault i have been thinking all thease years that all the bad stuff that happend in my own home growing up was my fault as my Father phyiscaly or verbaly attacked my 5 older brothers also my mother i felt wasnt there...	carollinda	2	1159	Sep 1, 2012 by Blondieb
	Tradition 9 - Adult Children of Alcoholics (Preview) 9. ACA, as such, ought never be organized, but we may create service boards or committees directly responsible to those they serve. Organizations often get lost in the preservation of the organization to the detriment of the mission of the organization.	JamesCT	1	950	Aug 27, 2012 by DavidG
	ALANON TRADTION 9 (Preview) TRADITION NINE (9)Our Groups as such Ought Never be Organized but They May Create Service Boards or Committees Directly Responsible to Those they ServeCourage to Change (291)As newcomers we were surprised to find the absence of rules in alanon . Before we found recovery from the effects of alcoh...	hotrod	2	1737	Aug 25, 2012 by hotrod
	Tradition 8 - Adult Children of Alcoholics (Preview) 8. Adult Children of Alcoholics should remain forever non-professional, but our service centers may employ special workers. A concession that people for specific functions may be needed.	JamesCT	1	947	Aug 25, 2012 by DavidG
	ALANON TRADITION 8 (Preview) TRADITION EIGHT 8 TRADITION EIGHT 8 Alanon Twelve Step Work Should remain forever Non-Professional but Our Service Centers May Employ Service Workers. Courage to Change (Page 137) We come together as a fellow ship of equals. Where no one is in charge and no one is an expert. Every memb...	hotrod	1	5400	Aug 25, 2012 by DavidG
	Tradition 7 - Adult Children of Alcoholics (Preview) 7. Every ACA group ought to be fully self-supporting, declining outside contributions. If a group is beholding to an outside means of support, then there is pressure to change the group's message to suit its benefactor. This is to protect ACA from that.	JamesCT	3	1025	Aug 4, 2012 by DavidG
	STEP 4 ALANON (Preview) 4 th Step: Made a Searching and Fearless Moral Inventory of Ourselves Courage to Change Page 158 How easy it can be to justify our own unacceptable behavior!! Perhaps we excuse ourselves, claiming that we were provoked or had no choice. Or we dismiss our actions by telling ourselves that Everyone...	hotrod	9	17243	Jul 27, 2012 by hotrod
	Alanon Tradition 7 (Preview) Seventh Step (7)Every Groups Ought to be Fully Self Supporting Declining outside Contributions COURAGE TO CHANGE PAGE (251)There is more to maintaining a fully self-supporting Al Anon group than just paying the rent. Continuity of service is important to our common welfare. I will think abo...	hotrod	1	5747	Jul 27, 2012 by DavidG
	Tradition 6 - Adult Children of Alcoholics (Preview) 6. An ACA group ought never endorse, finance or lend the ACA name to any related facility or outside enterprise, lest problems of money, property and prestige divert us from our primary purpose. Money can lure people's eyes off the true mission of a cause, substituting itself for the actual point. Th...	JamesCT	1	1168	Jul 18, 2012 by DavidG
	I'm new to this. (Preview) Good evening, I am new to this and not really sure how it works. I just know that I need to talk to someone that is going through what I am. I have a sister who is an alcoholic and her drinking is affecting me and my family. I don't want her to feel as if I'm judging her and I don't want to isolate her but I don't...	yolerbob	1	1071	Jul 11, 2012 by JamesCT
	Online AA meeting participation access (Preview) I cannot get into the online AA meetings--does anyone have a phone number I could call or any information on how to participate in the meetings? I have tried to get on multiple times during the Month of May, 2012. This would help very much as I have limited transportation to meetings from my rural hom...	mariposalily	1	1005	Jul 9, 2012 by Magpie
	Tradition 1 - Adult Children of Alcoholics (Preview) 1. Our common welfare should come first, personal recovery depends on ACA unity. I have been asked to post the twelve traditions of ACA, but I am not versed on them or what they mean, to be perfectly honest. So I welcome your opinions and discussions. This first tradition definitely could use some ex...	JamesCT	10	2062	Jul 6, 2012 by DavidG
	Tradition 5 - Adult Children of Alcoholics (Preview) 5. Each group has but one primary purpose - to carry its message to the adult child who still suffers. As is the case with any organized human endeavor, sometimes the purpose of the gathering can get lost in the people, their personalities, and their agendas. We need to be mindful that this is the purpos...	JamesCT	1	1032	Jul 3, 2012 by DavidG
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