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I am a survivor of exual abuse at the hands of my parents.       I took my dads rape of me as love. I have explored my sexuality via on-line phone hookups  with men. I am male.   I have discovered rape was not love and the thought of being gay is disgusting  to me.    my girlfriend found ot what I was doing and thinks I'm a sicko  she   wants to dump me.   I also used these phone conversations as a way o vent anger.    AM I a perpertrator.   many conversations were instigated by  me. I'd get my "partner' all  worked up  then I'd hang  up.   any thoughts



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Hi
I do think a good therapist would be best person to help you explore this question Good Luck

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I STARTED SEEING ONE LAST WEEK AND HE SAID IT'S NOT UNUSUAL.I WILL EXPLORE FURTHER IF IM STILL IN AREA



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Good work

 Take care of yourself so you can enjoy your preious life.  



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that's why I'm here on this site

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