Step Work

JamesCT · JamesCT

Tradition 7:Every ACA group ought to be fully self-supporting, declining outside contributions.

hotrod · hotrod

Tradition SevenEvery group or to be fully self-supporting declining outside contributionsC2C page 251 I never thought much about tradition seven because I thought it referred only to paying the rent. Recently I was involved with a group that maintained itself financially and still is not self...

JamesCT · JamesCT

Tradition 6:An ACA group ought never endorse, finance or lend the ACA name to any related facility or outside enterprise, lest problems of money, property and prestige divert us from our primary purpose.

JamesCT · JamesCT

6. Were entirely ready to have God remove all these defects of character. In order for the trapeze artist to get to the other trapeze, he must let go of the one he's holding onto. He cannot hang onto both. So too must we be ready to let go of our behaviors that served us to a degree but limit us from going beyon...

JamesCT · JamesCT

4: Made a searching and fearless moral inventory of ourselves. Please do this step. I have seen people procrastinate on this step, make excuses, skip, or even quit working the steps over it. I myself took a long time to do this step myself because I was afraid I'd start beating myself up and would never s...

JamesCT · JamesCT

5. Admitted to God, to ourselves, and to another human being the exact nature of our wrongs.This morning, I woke up with this feeling I didn't know how to deal with and so I just decided to myself I'd hide it to myself and never talk about it. from the song "I Think I Love You" written by Tony Rome...

JamesCT · JamesCT

3: Made a decision to turn our will and our lives over to the care of God as we understand God. First, read God as Higher Power if God is an issue for you. Next, I had to make a conscious choice and be committed to it. This was not sampling. I had to commit to it and believe the Higher Power would work for me whe...

JamesCT · JamesCT

2: Came to believe that a power greater than ourselves could restore us to sanity. The Higher Power problem: Some people have a problem with the concept of a higher power. Here are two things to consider. From the ACA Yellow Workbook: A note to the atheist or agnositc: The ACA progam is for you. If you d...

JamesCT · JamesCT

The ACoA Steps wrote:1. We admitted we were powerless over the effects of alcoholism or other family dysfunction, that our lives had become unmanageable. You grew up in a household with an alcoholic or some other trauma. And things got distorted. You were told that what you felt was wrong, or that w...

hotrod · hotrod

Tradition fiveEach Al-Anon family group has one purpose: to help families of alcoholics. We do this by practicing the 12 steps of AA ourselves, by encouraging and understanding are alcoholic relatives, and by welcoming and giving comfort to families of alcoholics.New Al-Anon reader; Reaching...

hotrod · hotrod

By working the Steps for ourselves we find we have problems of our OWN and by practicing the steps we gain courage and wisdom and leave our old ways behind STEP 3MADE A decision TO TURN OUR WILL AND OUR LIVES OVER TO THE CARE OF GOD, AS WE UNDERSTOOD HIM STEP 3 example Three frogs sat on a lily pad. One made a...

hotrod · hotrod

Step 3 Made a Decision to turn our will and our lives over to the care of God AS WE UNDERSTOOD HIMStep 3 Courage to Change Page 269 I find myself taking Step 3 over and over again. Unfortunately , I often wait until a problem begins to overwhelm me before I finally give in and turn it over to my Higher Power....

JamesCT · JamesCT

Tradition 5:Each group has but one primary purpose - to carry its message to the adult child who still suffers.

JamesCT · JamesCT

Tradition 4:Each group is autonomous except in matters affecting other groups or ACA as a whole. We cooperate with all other 12-Step programs.

hotrod · hotrod

Tradition FourEach group should be autonomous, except in matters affecting another group or Al-Anon or AA as a whole.C2C page 112 something Ive come to appreciate in Al-Anon is our unity in diversity. Tradition 4 says that each group is autonomous, free to conduct meetings in a way that suits each me...

hotrod · hotrod

Tradition threeThe relatives of alcoholics when gathered together for mutual aid, may call themselves in Al-Anon family group, provided that as a group, they have no other affiliation. The only requirement for membership is that there be a problem of alcoholism in a relative or friend. Thought f...

Tlcole · Tlcole

My husband is a drug addict and is in treatment for the first time. His councler suggested that I join al-anon so here I am. I'm also going to my first meeting tonight. The posts I have read seem to be all about alcohol, is this where I need to be?

JamesCT · JamesCT

Tradition 3:The only requirement for ACA membership is a compulsive family background and a desire to become well emotionally.

hotrod · hotrod

Tradition Two For our group purpose there is but one authority a loving God as he may express himself in our group conscience our leaders are but trusted servants they do not govern. Tradition two reminds us that there is only one authority a loving God. In Al-Anon no member is given a position of autho...

JamesCT · JamesCT

Tradition 2:For our group purpose there is but one ultimate authority - a loving God as expressed in our group conscience. Our leaders are but trusted servants, they do not govern.

Topic		Started By	Replies	Views	Last Post
	Adult Children of Alcoholics Tradition 7 (Preview) Tradition 7:Every ACA group ought to be fully self-supporting, declining outside contributions.	JamesCT	0	923	Apr 28, 2015 by JamesCT
	Alanon Tradition 7 (Preview) *Tradition Seven*Every group or to be fully self-supporting declining outside contributionsC2C page 251 I never thought much about tradition seven because I thought it referred only to paying the rent. Recently I was involved with a group that maintained itself financially and still is not self...	hotrod	2	3121	Apr 27, 2015 by hotrod
	Adult Children of Alcoholics Tradition 6 (Preview) Tradition 6:An ACA group ought never endorse, finance or lend the ACA name to any related facility or outside enterprise, lest problems of money, property and prestige divert us from our primary purpose.	JamesCT	0	950	Apr 13, 2015 by JamesCT
	Adult Children of Alcoholics Step 6 (Preview) 6. Were entirely ready to have God remove all these defects of character. In order for the trapeze artist to get to the other trapeze, he must let go of the one he's holding onto. He cannot hang onto both. So too must we be ready to let go of our behaviors that served us to a degree but limit us from going beyon...	JamesCT	4	980	Apr 13, 2015 by JamesCT
	Adult Children of Alcoholics Step 4 (Preview) 4: Made a searching and fearless moral inventory of ourselves. Please do this step. I have seen people procrastinate on this step, make excuses, skip, or even quit working the steps over it. I myself took a long time to do this step myself because I was afraid I'd start beating myself up and would never s...	JamesCT	11	1389	Apr 13, 2015 by countrygirl
	Adult Children of Alcoholics Step 5 (Preview) 5. Admitted to God, to ourselves, and to another human being the exact nature of our wrongs.This morning, I woke up with this feeling I didn't know how to deal with and so I just decided to myself I'd hide it to myself and never talk about it. from the song "I Think I Love You" written by Tony Rome...	JamesCT	4	1340	Apr 13, 2015 by countrygirl
	Step 3 - Adult Children of Alcoholics (Preview) 3: Made a decision to turn our will and our lives over to the care of God as we understand God. First, read God as Higher Power if God is an issue for you. Next, I had to make a conscious choice and be committed to it. This was not sampling. I had to commit to it and believe the Higher Power would work for me whe...	JamesCT	14	1816	Apr 9, 2015 by countrygirl
	Adult Children of Alcoholics Step 2 (Preview) 2: Came to believe that a power greater than ourselves could restore us to sanity. The Higher Power problem: Some people have a problem with the concept of a higher power. Here are two things to consider. From the ACA Yellow Workbook: A note to the atheist or agnositc: The ACA progam is for you. If you d...	JamesCT	16	1530	Apr 9, 2015 by countrygirl
	Adult Children of Alcoholics Step 1 (Preview) The ACoA Steps wrote:1. We admitted we were powerless over the effects of alcoholism or other family dysfunction, that our lives had become unmanageable. You grew up in a household with an alcoholic or some other trauma. And things got distorted. You were told that what you felt was wrong, or that w...	JamesCT	22	1676	Apr 9, 2015 by countrygirl
	Alanon Tradition 5 (Preview) Tradition fiveEach Al-Anon family group has one purpose: to help families of alcoholics. We do this by practicing the 12 steps of AA ourselves, by encouraging and understanding are alcoholic relatives, and by welcoming and giving comfort to families of alcoholics.New Al-Anon reader; Reaching...	hotrod	4	2323	Apr 9, 2015 by hotrod
	STEP 3 ALANON (Preview) By working the Steps for ourselves we find we have problems of our OWN and by practicing the steps we gain courage and wisdom and leave our old ways behind *STEP 3MADE A decision TO TURN OUR WILL AND OUR LIVES OVER TO THE CARE OF GOD, AS WE UNDERSTOOD HIM STEP 3 example* Three frogs sat on a lily pad. One made a...	hotrod	11	6649	Apr 9, 2015 by hotrod
	Alanon Third Step (# 3) (Preview) Step 3 Made a Decision to turn our will and our lives over to the care of God AS WE UNDERSTOOD HIMStep 3 Courage to Change Page 269 I find myself taking Step 3 over and over again. Unfortunately , I often wait until a problem begins to overwhelm me before I finally give in and turn it over to my Higher Power....	hotrod	12	8916	Apr 1, 2015 by ntd2001
	Adult Children of Alcoholics Tradition 5 (Preview) Tradition 5:Each group has but one primary purpose - to carry its message to the adult child who still suffers.	JamesCT	0	901	Mar 31, 2015 by JamesCT
	Adult Children of Alcoholics Tradition 4 (Preview) Tradition 4:Each group is autonomous except in matters affecting other groups or ACA as a whole. We cooperate with all other 12-Step programs.	JamesCT	0	946	Mar 17, 2015 by JamesCT
	Tradition 4 Alanon (Preview) Tradition FourEach group should be autonomous, except in matters affecting another group or Al-Anon or AA as a whole.C2C page 112 something Ive come to appreciate in Al-Anon is our unity in diversity. Tradition 4 says that each group is autonomous, free to conduct meetings in a way that suits each me...	hotrod	2	3238	Mar 14, 2015 by hotrod
	Alanon Tradition3 (Preview) *Tradition threeThe relatives of alcoholics when gathered together for mutual aid, may call themselves in Al-Anon family group, provided that as a group, they have no other affiliation. The only requirement for membership is that there be a problem of alcoholism in a relative or friend. Thought f...*	hotrod	2	1431	Mar 7, 2015 by hotrod
	New to this, is this for families of drug addicts too? (Preview) My husband is a drug addict and is in treatment for the first time. His councler suggested that I join al-anon so here I am. I'm also going to my first meeting tonight. The posts I have read seem to be all about alcohol, is this where I need to be?	Tlcole	1	1025	Mar 5, 2015 by hotrod
	Adult Children of Alcoholics Tradition 3 (Preview) Tradition 3:The only requirement for ACA membership is a compulsive family background and a desire to become well emotionally.	JamesCT	1	965	Mar 3, 2015 by JamesCT
	Alanon Tradition 2 (Preview) Tradition Two For our group purpose there is but one authority a loving God as he may express himself in our group conscience our leaders are but trusted servants they do not govern. Tradition two reminds us that there is only one authority a loving God. In Al-Anon no member is given a position of autho...	hotrod	4	2926	Mar 1, 2015 by hotrod
	Adult Children of Alcoholics Tradition 2 (Preview) Tradition 2:For our group purpose there is but one ultimate authority - a loving God as expressed in our group conscience. Our leaders are but trusted servants, they do not govern.	JamesCT	0	951	Feb 16, 2015 by JamesCT
«First < 1 … 28 29 30 31 32 … 75 > Last» \| Page of 75 sorted by

Learn how the 12 Steps work. Participate in your own recovery as well as the recovery of others, by being active on this board as we go through the 12 Steps of recovery together! We discuss each of the Twelve Steps In the order they are written, one step at a time, every two weeks.