Step Work

jo-D · jo-D

I have been married to an A for 3 1/2 yrs. we have a 5 yr old. My AH has worn out all promises of "drinkin deals" available. He finally has started goin to AA meetings last wk. While I was not allowin him to be at our house for a wk after his last black out session that left him fist fightin in our front...

sundancechild · sundancechild

I am not really sure how to go abouts using this site, I came upon this site in desperate need of help. I have been told by others to attend Alanon the reason is because I grew up in an alcoholic home and now am living with a man who is an alcoholic. I feel so out of control, & very confused about everything...

gonee · gonee

BB pg 62/63 1. "....this concept was the keystone of the new and triumphant arch through which we passed to freedom." 2. "We had a new Employer." 3. "...He provided what we needed..." 4. "...we felt new power flow in..." 5. "...we enjoyed peace of mi...

gonee · gonee

Having identified myself as an alcoholic, which was acknowledging the powerless state that I was in and the fact that my life had reached a total state of unmanageability, I was now faced with a task of finding POWER. As long as I deny powerlessness and unmanageability there is no need for Step2 and so I...

gonee · gonee

"Admitted we were powerless over alcohol..." First of all without reading the 1st 60 pages of the AA book I did not understand what powerless meant. I had to break this step into chewable pieces. Looks like an easy step but it is not. Power of choice is a natural instinct, otherwise I would di...

tlcate · tlcate

Admitted to God, to ourselves, and to another human being the exact nature of our wrongs. Boy, was this difficult. No one on this planet has ever heard the whole story. Much less MY PART. My siblings see the sister in me, my daugther the mom and so on. I have always wanted a SO to share my heart and soul w...

danielle72 · danielle72

Hello, I am new to this. I have been sober for 2 days. I am on steps one and two. One is easy for me, although it wasn't for the past few years, it is now. I get it, I am an alcoholic and my life is unmanageable especially in the area of alcohol. Step two should be easy for me, but believe it or not, I am stumbli...

Girly · Girly

Hello, I just joined the forum. My husband has been sober for about 17 months and he quit smoking for about 7 months. I am so happy for him and our family. What I am finding out is the hurtful things he says and does is now not alcohol motivated...I need to begin with Step one and wanted to know when it will be o...

tmariec27 · tmariec27

I am new to al anon ... I am online because I do not have enough support to go to f2f meetings. I am looking for a sponsor and not sure how to do that either. I am a mom of 4 children. I was raised by both parents being addicts/alcoholics and my husband is also an Alcoholic. I am completely mortified of havin...

hotrod · hotrod

4 th Step Made a Searching and Fearless Moral Inventory of Ourself The first time I attempted this step many. many years ago I was unable to do it in a "Fearless " Manner. My sponsor urged me into action and regardless of the fear I decided to go within and finally uncover the pain, the sadn...

gonee · gonee

This the only step as far as I know in the AA book which asks me to be "convinced". Convinced of what? Convinced that we were in the right place- "we were at Step 3". If I am not convinced, then I need to go back to Step1 and Step2 and see what it is that I am not convinced about. If I am not c...

AGO · AGO

To kind of keep the ball rolling, or get the ball rolling, I will add a step 3 synopsis I did for a secular forum a few months ago: Hello, My name is Andrew and I am an Alcoholic I hope this is appropriate, and I am sorry I repeat myself a few times, I am only hoping to show how I was able to work the twelve steps as a...

paula1968 · paula1968

Hi All Just wandering what are you suppose to do with your step work when you have done it. I know when i was in NA i would go to my sponsors house to read what ever step id done. What is the proper process. Thank you Paula

angel66 · angel66

Hi, I was wondering, it said on one page that there was a step meeting to do the steps but I cant find any kind of step meeting or schedule. Also, is there anyway that I can find on the site, the steps in order, including comments etc or do I just have to go through the messages and read what may interest me? Tha...

Martee · Martee

Hello, I recently (3 weeks ago) started going back to AA. I had not been any about 6 years. I've been in rehab twice, but in all that time I had never worked the steps. I have been what they call a dry drunk for the past 7 years and just recently I felt like my world was falling apart. I started having anxiety an...

ME2BRANDIE · ME2BRANDIE

I dont have any one to help me look over my 3rd & make sure it is right. Plus I need some one to help me start my 4th. My e-mail address is ME2BRANDIE@aol.com If any one would like to share or help me. I would be willing to e-mail you my # if you seam straight up. Or if I feel I can trust you.

DorothyG · DorothyG

Hi everyone, Although I have discussed this with my sponsor, have read the 12/12 and the big book; I remain stuck on the 4th step. Is this to be a list of the recent past/present? The long ago past/present? And what exactly are resentments? I do not harbor any ill feelings for any length of time. Unne...

LORIE · LORIE

I just don't understand addiction.. My husband went to a recovery center 2 weeks ago... he seems to be doing really good and I'm so proud of him.. But, What after he gets out? will he go right back to drinking? will AA help once he's out? Shouldd I put our family back together? what is the cause of his drink...

Avril G · Avril G

I heard a story about a newcomer who asked his sponsor, 'OK, so what happens when I've finished the 12 steps, what do I do then?' His sponsor replied, 'Well son, once you've finished them, you better lie very still, cos you'll be dead' He went on to say that he didn't look at the steps as a flight of stairs,...

Carlotta · Carlotta

I am new to this site and looking for some encouragement. I have been to meetings and 12 step programs in the past (15 yrs ago) but got away from it all and sure enough starting sipping white wine before meals, here I am 3 years later and that demon shows up unannounced. I have been to lots of functions and...

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	VENTIN !.. sorry I'm frustrated (Preview) I have been married to an A for 3 1/2 yrs. we have a 5 yr old. My AH has worn out all promises of "drinkin deals" available. He finally has started goin to AA meetings last wk. While I was not allowin him to be at our house for a wk after his last black out session that left him fist fightin in our front...	jo-D	1	1345	Sep 7, 2010 by hotrod
	new to alanon (Preview) I am not really sure how to go abouts using this site, I came upon this site in desperate need of help. I have been told by others to attend Alanon the reason is because I grew up in an alcoholic home and now am living with a man who is an alcoholic. I feel so out of control, & very confused about everything...	sundancechild	2	1643	Sep 7, 2010 by jo-D
	Step 3 promises (Preview) BB pg 62/63 1. "....this concept was the keystone of the new and triumphant arch through which we passed to *freedom." 2. "We had a new Employer." 3. "...He provided what we needed..." 4. "...we felt new power* flow in..." 5. "...we enjoyed peace of mi...	gonee	1	2000	Aug 19, 2010 by Dave Harm
	Step2 (Preview) Having identified myself as an alcoholic, which was acknowledging the powerless state that I was in and the fact that my life had reached a total state of unmanageability, I was now faced with a task of finding POWER. As long as I deny powerlessness and unmanageability there is no need for Step2 and so I...	gonee	1	1525	Aug 13, 2010 by MarcLacroix
	Step 1 (Preview) "Admitted we were powerless over alcohol..." First of all without reading the 1st 60 pages of the AA book I did not understand what powerless meant. I had to break this step into chewable pieces. Looks like an easy step but it is not. Power of choice is a natural instinct, otherwise I would di...	gonee	3	1989	Aug 10, 2010 by MarcLacroix
	Step 5 (Preview) Admitted to God, to ourselves, and to another human being the exact nature of our wrongs. Boy, was this difficult. No one on this planet has ever heard the whole story. Much less MY PART. My siblings see the sister in me, my daugther the mom and so on. I have always wanted a SO to share my heart and soul w...	tlcate	7	2044	Aug 3, 2010 by tlcate
	Steps 1 and 2....day 2 of being sober (Preview) Hello, I am new to this. I have been sober for 2 days. I am on steps one and two. One is easy for me, although it wasn't for the past few years, it is now. I get it, I am an alcoholic and my life is unmanageable especially in the area of alcohol. Step two should be easy for me, but believe it or not, I am stumbli...	danielle72	4	1853	Jul 30, 2010 by tlcate
	Saving myself (Preview) Hello, I just joined the forum. My husband has been sober for about 17 months and he quit smoking for about 7 months. I am so happy for him and our family. What I am finding out is the hurtful things he says and does is now not alcohol motivated...I need to begin with Step one and wanted to know when it will be o...	Girly	1	1361	Jul 28, 2010 by tlcate
	desperate and new to al anon (Preview) I am new to al anon ... I am online because I do not have enough support to go to f2f meetings. I am looking for a sponsor and not sure how to do that either. I am a mom of 4 children. I was raised by both parents being addicts/alcoholics and my husband is also an Alcoholic. I am completely mortified of havin...	tmariec27	2	1596	Jul 28, 2010 by tlcate
	Step 4 (Preview) 4 th Step Made a Searching and Fearless Moral Inventory of Ourself The first time I attempted this step many. many years ago I was unable to do it in a "Fearless " Manner. My sponsor urged me into action and regardless of the fear I decided to go within and finally uncover the pain, the sadn...	hotrod	6	1934	Jul 17, 2010 by littlemamasheart
	Step3 (Preview) This the only step as far as I know in the AA book which asks me to be "convinced". Convinced of what? Convinced that we were in the right place- *"we were at Step 3*". If I am not convinced, then I need to go back to Step1 and Step2 and see what it is that I am not convinced about. If I am not c...	gonee	1	1452	Jul 11, 2010 by gonee
	How I worked Step 3 in AA (Preview) To kind of keep the ball rolling, or get the ball rolling, I will add a step 3 synopsis I did for a secular forum a few months ago: Hello, My name is Andrew and I am an Alcoholic I hope this is appropriate, and I am sorry I repeat myself a few times, I am only hoping to show how I was able to work the twelve steps as a...	AGO	4	6156	Jul 4, 2010 by ferrisdp
	Step 1 in OA (Preview) Hi All Just wandering what are you suppose to do with your step work when you have done it. I know when i was in NA i would go to my sponsors house to read what ever step id done. What is the proper process. Thank you Paula	paula1968	7	5071	Jun 18, 2010 by Trudystar
	12 step meeting or steps in order (Preview) Hi, I was wondering, it said on one page that there was a step meeting to do the steps but I cant find any kind of step meeting or schedule. Also, is there anyway that I can find on the site, the steps in order, including comments etc or do I just have to go through the messages and read what may interest me? Tha...	angel66	5	1493	Jun 16, 2010 by Teddymarie
	I am having trouble with the 3rd step. please help (Preview) Hello, I recently (3 weeks ago) started going back to AA. I had not been any about 6 years. I've been in rehab twice, but in all that time I had never worked the steps. I have been what they call a dry drunk for the past 7 years and just recently I felt like my world was falling apart. I started having anxiety an...	Martee	4	1815	Jun 11, 2010 by ack
	finshed my 3rd In need of help (Preview) I dont have any one to help me look over my 3rd & make sure it is right. Plus I need some one to help me start my 4th. My e-mail address is ME2BRANDIE@aol.com If any one would like to share or help me. I would be willing to e-mail you my # if you seam straight up. Or if I feel I can trust you.	ME2BRANDIE	4	1291	Jun 11, 2010 by ack
	Need a bit of direction on the 4th Step (Preview) Hi everyone, Although I have discussed this with my sponsor, have read the 12/12 and the big book; I remain stuck on the 4th step. Is this to be a list of the recent past/present? The long ago past/present? And what exactly are resentments? I do not harbor any ill feelings for any length of time. Unne...	DorothyG	4	1445	Jun 7, 2010 by ME2BRANDIE
	Husband is in recovery as I type. (Preview) I just don't understand addiction.. My husband went to a recovery center 2 weeks ago... he seems to be doing really good and I'm so proud of him.. But, What after he gets out? will he go right back to drinking? will AA help once he's out? Shouldd I put our family back together? what is the cause of his drink...	LORIE	2	1361	Jun 3, 2010 by P TERRY
	THE 12 STEP CLOCK (Preview) I heard a story about a newcomer who asked his sponsor, 'OK, so what happens when I've finished the 12 steps, what do I do then?' His sponsor replied, 'Well son, once you've finished them, you better lie very still, cos you'll be dead' He went on to say that he didn't look at the steps as a flight of stairs,...	Avril G	3	2560	May 22, 2010 by aprilleaves
	Conversation with myself (Preview) I am new to this site and looking for some encouragement. I have been to meetings and 12 step programs in the past (15 yrs ago) but got away from it all and sure enough starting sipping white wine before meals, here I am 3 years later and that demon shows up unannounced. I have been to lots of functions and...	Carlotta	3	1652	May 22, 2010 by aprilleaves
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