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i had trouble getting on, but now that i am...this is AWSOME.....
a STEP board.....my favorite part of the program, the STEPS!!!! my "life 101" manual
i didn't even know how to live/interact as a human being till i got into recovery and into the steps...
whoever came up with...
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Hello., I'm new here.
Any info about navigating around this forum or any help with my stopping drinking will be greatly appreciated.
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Step Eleven Questions
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Step Eleven - Sought through prayer and meditation to improve our conscious contact with God as we understood Him, praying only for knowlege of His will for us and the power to carry that out.
1. How do I define the difference between prayer and meditation?
2. Do I have a special time and place t...
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Step Eleven Al-Anon
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Step Eleven - Sought through prayer and medtation to improve our conscious contact with God as we understood Him, praying only for knowledge of His will for us and the power to carry that out.
From: Paths to Recovery pg, 111 (copyright 1997, by Al-Anon Family Group Headquarters, Inc. Limited use...
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Step Ten Questions
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Step Ten - Continued to take personal inventory and when we were wrong promptly admitted it.
1. When might I need to take a spot check?
2. What can I do with my spot check inventory?
3. How did I try to fix anyone today?
4. What can I do to take good care of myself today?
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Step Ten Al-Anon
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Step Ten - Continued to take personal inventory and we we were wrong promptly admitted it.
From: How Al-Anon Works pg. 61 (copyrigt 1995, by Al-Anon Family Group Headquarters, Inc. Limited use by express written permission of Al-Anon Family Group Headquarters, Inc.)
This Step must be tak...
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Step Nine Questions
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Step Nine - Made direct amends to such people wherever possible, except when to do so would injure them or others.
1. How can I plan what I'm going to say in my direct amends to be clear and concise and to avoid blaming any other person?
2. What is the difference between an apology and making amend...
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This board seems a little bit difficult to use. I can't find the most recent posts, and it doesn't seem people talk here much?
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Step Nine Al-Anon
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Step Nine - Made direct amends to such people whereever possible, except when to do so would injire them or others.
From: Al-Anon's Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions pg. 57. (copyright 1981, by Al-anon Family Group Headquarters, Inc. Limited use by express written permission of Al-Anon Fami...
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spiritual growth
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Hi guys,
Are you interested in recovery and abstinence from alcohol,
The big book says it all, when the spiritual malady is overcome we straighten out mentally and physically.
When I pray and stay out of the drivers seat, my life goes ever so well.
When I drive I am living in self-will, does any...
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i am ready
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I want to start working the steps. Where and how do I start.
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Step 1 - ACOA - Common behavior characteristics
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Here are some common characteristics of Acoas ( adults who grew up in alcoholic or other dysfunctional homes)
1) We have feelings of low self-worth, and judge ourselves and others without mercy
2) We tend to isolate and feel uneasy around people we do not know, especially authority figures
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Step Eight Questions
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Step Eight - Made a list of all persons we had harmed and became willing to make amends to them all.
1. How have I used retionalization or justification to block me from becoming willing?
2. Have I considered praying for the willingness to become willing?
3. How patient am I in allowing mys...
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Step Eight
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Step Eight - Made a list of all persons we had harmed and became willing to make amends to them all.
From: Paths to Recovery pg. 82 (copyright 1997, by Al-Anon Family Group Headquarters, Inc. Limited use by express written permission of Al-Anon Family Group Headquarters, Inc.)
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Step Seven Questions
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Step Seven - Humbly asked him to remove our shortcomings.
1. How am I humble? How can I be more so?
2. What defects am I ready to have removed?
3. How can I treat myself with compassion in my recovery and ask for the willingness to keep trying?
4. As I work Step Seven do I see a change in my rel...
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Step Seven Al-Anon
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Step Seven - Humbly asked him to remove our shortcomings.
From: Paths to Recovery pg. 73 (copyright 1997, by Al-Anon Family Group Headquarters, Inc. Limited use by express written permission of Al-Anon Family Group Headquarters, Inc.)
It is important to remember that all our defects wil...
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Step Six Questions
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Step Six - Were entirely ready to have God remove all these defects of character.
1. Am I willing to let go of all my defects of character? Why or Why not?
2. Which ones would I prefer to hold on to? What advantages do I see to
holding on to them?
3. What does "have God remove all my defects of ch...
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Step Six Al-Anon
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Step Six - Were entirely ready to have God remove all these defects of character.
From: How Al-Anon Works - pg. 55
(copyright 1995, by Al-Anon Family Group Headquarters, Inc. Limited use by express written permission of Al-Anon Family Group Headquarters, Inc.)
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Step Five Questions
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Step Five - Admitted to God, to ourselves and to another human being the exact nature of our wrongs.
1. What may block me from trusting someone with my truth? Can I share these fears with another person?
2. How can telling someone else the exact nature of my wrongs enhance my ability to see mysel...
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hi ...
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hi MIP ! great to see you ... I've been having difficulty connecting to this site recently from home , and wondered whether anyone else has or why that might be , eg to do with type of computer or browser or location etc ? I'm very keen to go on posting here , just my luck to have diffiuclty getting onto a favou...
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