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Step Eight Questions
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Step Eight - Made a list of all persons we had harmed and became willing to make amends to them all.
1. Am I willing to make amends? If not, why not/ If yes, am I willing to write about my experience?
2. How willing am I to be completely honest?
3. In reviewing my list, is there a pattern reflecti...
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NEW TO ACOA
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I am so happy that I found this site. It gives me a glitter of hope, even though I feel like shit. It is so easy for me to judge, hate, and destroy myself, I can barley take it any longer.
I am trying to admit that I am powerless, sure feel that way, but I find it hard because that will mean that I am weak and it...
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rings doorbell !
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hi Alanon , ACOA , AA ! been to lots of 2f meetings and recently exploring the idea of using the online resources. I worked through alot of stuff with sponsors and find now I'm left still with alot of 'codependent guilt' , which I don't feel will ever entirely go away . ie getting over invol...
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Step Seven Questions
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Step Seven - Humbly asked Him to remove our shortcomings.
1. How d I humbly ask God to take my shortcomings?
2. What can I do to cooperate with my Higher Power in removing y shortcomings?
3. What slogan could remind me to find a substitute for a negative behavior I wish to release?
4. As I...
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Step Eight Al-Anon
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Step Eight - Made a list of all persons we had harmed and became willing to make amends to them all.
From: Paths to Recovery pg. 81 (copyright 1997, by al-Anon Family Group Headquarters, Inc. Limited use by express written permission of Al-Anon Family Group Headquarters, Inc.)
In Step Eight...
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THE STEPS
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I have not been able to get past the 3rd step ..i hope to get a sponser to help me
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General Step Question
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I find that as I work the steps, I keep going back to the basics. I have to keep starting with step one. I think I have step one down and then realize that step one is an everyday struggle for me. How can I move on to other steps when I have trouble Letting Go and turning things over to my HP?...
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posting if on wrong step?
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Hi,
My question : Should I post even if I'm on wrong group step or should I go to Alanon post? Have something i discovered on step 5. Can't help it, it turned up now and i am slow.
best
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Step 7 - ACoA
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from 'The 12 Steps for Adult Children'
Step 7 - "Humbly asked God to remover our shortcomings"
"Step 7 requires prayer... Our condition, our honesty , and our pain have humbled us so now we must open our mouths and pray... If we were thorough, our Step 4 inventory listed each character defect separ...
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private messages
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Carla, I got your message. Now, to see my reply,,, when you first come onto this board,, look up top where it says, "logged in as ____" and you will see that you have a private message and it says, 'click here'.
God bless you today,
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Aca step meeting at MIP
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Monday nights at 930 pm est in ACA Chatroom Check ACA board for topics and questions.
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step 7? already?
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Hi all,
Step 7? Now you lost me. Too fast. Sorry will have to catch you on next round. Am still trying to figure out who will listen to 50 yrs. of secrets here? lol. It's been a long life! ok, will work on 5 and then 6 and then start over with you. It's a proces...
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Step 7
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I believe this step is Humbly asked God to remove defects of charater or something of that nature. I dont have a book to reference at the moment so I hope I am close!
Anyway, the key for me on this one was getting humble without feeling like I was sorry to be me. I was sorry for ev...
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step f2f meetings - do they move too fast?
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Found a good Step meeting to attend on Wed nights. However each week we're discussing a new step! I think this is wayyyyy too fast. Im finding Im reading the Courage to Change, identifying and reading at the meetings. Are they step meetings out there just to get knowledge of how they work? How do I find a s...
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new to al-anon
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I am new to al-anon and am not sure what kind of meeting i should be going to. I have a son who is treatment. Should I go to the beginner, step, discussion or the regular meeting.
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Step Seven Al-Anon
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Step Seven - Humbly asked Him to remove our shortcomings.
From Paths to Recovery - pg. 73-74
(copyright 1997, by Al-Anon Family Groups, Inc. Limited use by express written permission of Al-Anon Family Groups. Inc.)
In turning to the God of our understanding for emoval of our shortcoming...
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Step Five Al-Anon
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Step Five - Admitted to God, to ouselves and to another human being the exact nature of our wrongs.
From: Paths to Recovery - pg. 54 (copyright 1997, by Al-Anon Family Group Headquarters, Inc. Limited use by express written permission of Al-'Anon Family Group Headquarters, Inc.)
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Step 6 shares
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I do find that there are things that I do that are defensive that I'm not ready to let go of - yet. I find other things that I wish God would change right away and completely cuz I know they get in my way but I don't know what else to do. In almost 20 years now of doing the Steps, I've cycled through 4 - 9 a few times,...
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Step Six Al-Anon
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Step Six - Were entirely ready to have God remove all these defects of character.
From: Paths to Recovery - pg. 65
(copyright 1997, by Al-Anon Family Group Headquarters, Inc. Limited use by express written permission of Al-Anon Family Group Headquarters, Inc. )
We know we have character...
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Step 6 - ACoA
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from the book "The 12 Steps for Adult Children"
'Were entirely ready to have God remove all these defects of character'
"We might, on the surface, think that this is an easy thing, but many of these defects are deep character traits on which we have depended for survival. To release them means lett...
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